Valentine's Day
Friday, February 10, 2006
Valentines'I have never told you how I really feel, sometimes, I was just a second away from spilling the beans but the fear of rejection and loss held me back.'Though inexperenced, I can tell that love is a beautiful feeling God has given to us. The ability to love is an amazing thing that all living creatures should have.
There was a bulletin post that I read = saying to repost it "or else you'll be lonely on Valentine's Day and no one wants that" or "you'll have a badyear of relationships." Of course, it is hard to understand why people won't agree to this. The contents of the post included a clear message advisingpeople to tell their loved ones their true feelings - "take the opportunity", "do it now!", "before it's too late!", "here's your chance". I was temptedto repost before I suddenly stopped short. -----
Why am I caught up in this? What am I doing?! Reposting the message just because of a mere threat/curse that doesn't even exist? Moreover, by someone I don't even know who started the chain letter. Who is that person? How does he/she know my future? Exactly..So, who cares about the threats in the chain letters- "you must pass this on or else..." They do not control your lives and even if it suddenly rang true,will you panic? Thinking "how I wish I reposted that message". Just remember that it is your life, and it would be a coincidence. The best way to deal with thatannoying paranoia those chain posts give, PRAY :P
I figured that on Valentine's Day, I'd spent it like any other days... "or else you'll be lonely" So, what? I'd been alone on every Valentine's Day so it doesn't make any difference to me. "Of course" I've had my times when I feel the need to know if anyone loves me at all and the truth is God loves me. He hasgiven me families and friends who love me back as I much as I love them. But putting that aside, I find it no problem for me that I don't have a Valentinebecause if I love someone, I don't need Valentine's Day for a chance to tell him that I love him. I can tell him anytime I am ready to. (I wish)But funny thing is, I prefer the theory of keeping my mouth shut and "let nature takes its course." (HAHA)
My best friend told me once - when you love someone it doesnt necessarily means you have to have him/her. And I believe that is true because my happiness comes after [whoever-that-person-is]'s happiness. Well, to end, have a good Valentine's Day...Do tell me about your experiences :P:P
Some chocolates with a rose,
the meaning it clearly shows,
a lovey dovey poem written,
to express how you've got me smitten,
but all these typical Valentine rituals,
seem so much alike unworldly virtuals,
in giving and receiving love at most,
the meaning has already been lost,
there are no other ways except by confessing,
all this while it's you alone that I'll always be loving.
9 comments:
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ahaha that is very true.. so we all should ignore chain letter like that
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I have been ignoring chain emails for more than three years...
It just seems to be pointless and useless...In fact, I told my friends (when i have th eopportunity to) that I dont want to receive those...if really want to send to me, send the nice ones...
:P
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haha all i want for valentine's day is more instant quakers porridge!! hahahaha.. well, happy v day to u all!!
p/s there are also chain sms which i think are silly as well!
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i dont agree that if you love someone, and it's ok if you're not together. i think tat's just in the movies. if it ever happen in real life, it's going to be a really hard to live with...to see the person you love being with some other girl..it'll break your heart into pieces~ even the idea of it will send u to tears!
** stop cassie...ahha..ok...got to be more positive...
but i stil dont believe u can stand there and look at the person u love to love someone else.
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i received a rose from anonymous for v day.. wonder who is it... hmmmm.. maybe Anon?? haha
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who is Anon? there is a Anon here...among my friend...haha~
it's always very gentlemen of a guy to give flowers to girls.. =)
why i never get any v-day present!! actually..got la..but it was from a friend..very sweet of him..this year, he gave each girl a piece of cake he baked. how sweet!
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wow... lynx jiejie got a rose? not surprising la.. must have tons of admirers and same goes for lynnwei jiejie too~ but your friend is soo nice!! very thoughtful.. i also don receive anything but :P:P got greeting cards from friends
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Anon as in anonymous lo.. ahhahaha.. well, i just kinda ignore la. i mean if u really wanna give, why so scared and wanna hide identity? i think someone is up to some prank to make me feel 'perasan'. well who was the one who baked a cake for u girls there in russia? if it's something like gateaux affair cake.. nice la! haha
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LX
ahaha that is very true.. so we all should ignore chain letter like that